An extra-marital affair occurs when one partner goes outside of the relationship for emotional or physical needs. It can (produce )major, negative effects that can be felt for some time.
1. Damage to Self Esteem:
The person who has been cheated (may) suffer a blow to his or her self esteem. They may have the usual thoughts of, “Was I not enough?” or “If I hadn’t let myself go this would not have happened” ….
2. Lack of Trust:
The victim of an affair (may) find it difficult to trust. He or she may doubt their judgment of others. Even if this relationship ends, and another begins, the baggage of infidelity can follow ….
3. Sense of Instability:
You may feel your world has turned upside down. The things in your life that gave you a sense of security have been shattered. It is normal to feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you ….
4. Roller – Coaster of Emotions:
One minute you may feel like crying, the next screaming. You may blame (your partner) today, blame (yourself) tomorrow, and blame (your partner and ) yourself at the same time. It is common when facing infidelity to feel a myriad of emotions ….
5. The Ripple Effect:
Extra-marital affairs can cause a ripple effect in your life. You may find yourself looking differently at your job, your friends, your life choices. This can be either positive or negative, but most victims of an affair say that it brought on changes in all other areas of their lives ….
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